WE might be living our day-to-day life which gradually turn into months & then to years. It becomes illusionary at times what the human mind forms it's views about things starting from his closest surrounding to his farthest reach including rest of the mankind who are involved/part of the individual, either directly or indirectly.Though ideally, it's assumed that we are living a real life which is different from reel life, however even real life has it's own theatrics. Those actions of assumptions, communication-gap often leading to mis-interpretations, misunderstandings, judgement from other's as well as individual's own-perceptions & reactions adds on to the melo-dramatic effects to our life & so well ofcourse.. in a way that, WE get carried away so much that it becomes confusing & complicated to cut through Reality or The Realistic View!
For e.g. How well do i know you? depends basically on how much you would have revealed urself to me & vice-versa. Funny part is - It's human nature to hide things, smaller to a larger extent OR let me rephrase it - at times it doesn't seem important to mention about certain things; who cares & why should i.. afterall it's my own damn personal life! The complexity begins here itself :)
The higher the level of reformity & civilization of mankind has moved up, the extent of complicacy has just increased it's foldings.. Now, living a "simple man's life" with a simple mindset is just not possible, even if someone tries, he would be odd one out in the society //afterall, we're social beings - remember// There is always "this Fake thing" revolving, or call it "pretention". What is the necessity to pretend at the 1st place? To pretend that you're happy, to despise someone from heart or be jealous yet pass a fake smile, to speak with honour infront & bitch around at the back, to speak of trust & loyalty but actions speak otherwise; Most common thing is - To lie, it has become just part of life & it doesnt even take a 2nd thought to lie, so long it's not found out; well atleast it has now become a normal part of life. People try to be friendly & supportive - wait until you get into some trouble & just look at your back & side - seems like mankind has turned to be rare species to find. "Truth is always harsh" just becoz one likes the deception & gets used to how things seem-to-be rather than accepting the bitter & ugly truth! and how well do people cope-up //thanks to the survival/adjustment nature of human but only till their motives are well served// Men are selfish by nature, not much can be done about that. It's you whom you love the most, isn't it..? So, you keep doing things until something backfires, you get disappointed, hurt & thus stop there, just like - to change from an on-going path, taking a differnt path altogether. And the Best part - when it comes to understanding.. //i can't just avoid a smile across my face// To understand exactly what?? somebody's silence, limited words, when every convincing word of urs turns out to be a big fat lie, u step back & curb urself just because u were hurt with some harsh words or arrogance, thus ready to even jeopardize a strong & healthy relation?? cummon.. grow up..!!! u can't hold on to momentary words & part urself from the one u care so deeply; well, that ofcourse depends on the emotional levels of varied people - some are strong while some are vulnerable, some are practical enough to asses the real life, rest gets carried away..
As a matter of fact, It's not easy or that simple to have beneficiaries (can be of any kind) in this present era.. atleast not without any personal/selfish motive. But if you do, u're just lucky then! The realistic view is quite disappointing if the overall & broad perspection just narrows down to the simple & basic logic & events. At times, to put aside this so-called Reality seems to be more wise. It's all the good & nice things that we like, which is so part of our very human nature!!!
For e.g. How well do i know you? depends basically on how much you would have revealed urself to me & vice-versa. Funny part is - It's human nature to hide things, smaller to a larger extent OR let me rephrase it - at times it doesn't seem important to mention about certain things; who cares & why should i.. afterall it's my own damn personal life! The complexity begins here itself :)
The higher the level of reformity & civilization of mankind has moved up, the extent of complicacy has just increased it's foldings.. Now, living a "simple man's life" with a simple mindset is just not possible, even if someone tries, he would be odd one out in the society //afterall, we're social beings - remember// There is always "this Fake thing" revolving, or call it "pretention". What is the necessity to pretend at the 1st place? To pretend that you're happy, to despise someone from heart or be jealous yet pass a fake smile, to speak with honour infront & bitch around at the back, to speak of trust & loyalty but actions speak otherwise; Most common thing is - To lie, it has become just part of life & it doesnt even take a 2nd thought to lie, so long it's not found out; well atleast it has now become a normal part of life. People try to be friendly & supportive - wait until you get into some trouble & just look at your back & side - seems like mankind has turned to be rare species to find. "Truth is always harsh" just becoz one likes the deception & gets used to how things seem-to-be rather than accepting the bitter & ugly truth! and how well do people cope-up //thanks to the survival/adjustment nature of human but only till their motives are well served// Men are selfish by nature, not much can be done about that. It's you whom you love the most, isn't it..? So, you keep doing things until something backfires, you get disappointed, hurt & thus stop there, just like - to change from an on-going path, taking a differnt path altogether. And the Best part - when it comes to understanding.. //i can't just avoid a smile across my face// To understand exactly what?? somebody's silence, limited words, when every convincing word of urs turns out to be a big fat lie, u step back & curb urself just because u were hurt with some harsh words or arrogance, thus ready to even jeopardize a strong & healthy relation?? cummon.. grow up..!!! u can't hold on to momentary words & part urself from the one u care so deeply; well, that ofcourse depends on the emotional levels of varied people - some are strong while some are vulnerable, some are practical enough to asses the real life, rest gets carried away..
As a matter of fact, It's not easy or that simple to have beneficiaries (can be of any kind) in this present era.. atleast not without any personal/selfish motive. But if you do, u're just lucky then! The realistic view is quite disappointing if the overall & broad perspection just narrows down to the simple & basic logic & events. At times, to put aside this so-called Reality seems to be more wise. It's all the good & nice things that we like, which is so part of our very human nature!!!
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